tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post1899631289360930377..comments2023-11-02T05:29:07.670-04:00Comments on ♥ Beenazai: A Personal Tale + Stop Bullying. ♥Beenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comBlogger58125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-5420037754366784982014-05-09T00:55:47.427-04:002014-05-09T00:55:47.427-04:00Thank you for the kindness and showing so much lov...Thank you for the kindness and showing so much love! :) Likewise love your words are inspiring, your essay was amazing though haha. I loved reading it!<br /><br />Keep in touch gorgeous xoBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-82100051727193126392014-05-06T20:43:30.948-04:002014-05-06T20:43:30.948-04:00No problem, I'm very passionate about this top...No problem, I'm very passionate about this topic (if my essay of an answer wasn't obvious enough haha!) and I loved reading this post about it :)<br />I agree that it does make people stronger, I'm glad you have learned from your own experience and you've overcome it and are better for it :) You are an inspiration to others :D<br />xxVioletDaffodilshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12722545053896667144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-69639513673986576842014-05-04T00:29:29.166-04:002014-05-04T00:29:29.166-04:00Wow, thank you for sharing your story with me and ...Wow, thank you for sharing your story with me and everyone else. I do believe people have freedom of speech, but they should never abuse it. I don't understand the point of hateful comments especially when you know the other person will just get sad. <br /><br />I agree, people will always be jealous of what they cannot be or have - it's rather sad, but it's life. In a way, bullying has made me stronger. I learned to take the negativity well and handle it better now. Not everyone is the same though, people think it's okay to "joke" or "manhandle" someone. It's not cool at all, karma will hit them in the end though. Everyone has flaws, people should learn to accept each other.<br /><br />Thanks so much love :) <3 Hope you're well and keep in touch !Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-71070987472770384592014-05-03T15:30:04.314-04:002014-05-03T15:30:04.314-04:00I completely agree, I absolutely cannot stand peop...I completely agree, I absolutely cannot stand people who bully, I think they are a disgrace!<br />I think people are so sad who take time out of their day to comment on something being hurtful or just plain rude, think of the energy they have put into all that, they could have done something far more productive with their day instead.<br />I've recently had some hassle off my uni tutor, she told me to play at my strengths and so I did, and we don't really see eye to eye and she makes mean comments to not only me but other students in my class but I tolerate it because of uni and it'll be finished with soon, anyway she tells me the other day (3weeks before my final deadline) that my work is not good enough to get a degree and basically told me my work was a lost cause, rather than realising I could struggle and encourage or help she chose to insult me and give up on me. Aside from that, there is some people I know who I make an effort with for the sake of someone I care about and I was told that they were being bitchy behind my back. Especially when I've never done anything to be nasty to them I've always made the effort with them and been nice and they have nothing to have against me either and decide to be that way. I think it's ridiculous especially when you get to being 20+ of age and people still go on like children. Again they are also at uni and I think they need to spend more time finishing their uni work rather than talking about what I'm doing or not doing etc.<br />I find it hard sometimes with cases like this because I like to get along with people and avoid any dramas as much as I can (don't get me wrong I defend myself when I have to) but to have people be unnecessarily mean hurts as I realise you can't please everyone, even those who you try and be nice to. But I think the best thing to do is keep your head high, laugh it off, be the bigger person, defend yourself when you need to and keep those negative people out of your life and off your comments etc, at the end of the day if you retaliate just as badly, then you can sometimes come off worse, whereas if you don't give them the reaction they want and just make a joke out of it, others will think you're better than them and think those hurtful people are horrible and they'll look like idiots and have no friends,It is usually stemmed from jealousy most of the time and karma tends to hit those people anyway.<br />It doesn't matter how strong of a person you are, it can still hurt just as much. I don't understand it when I go on the likes of youtube and I see people writing horrible comments, I'm like "why even comment?" I know its a cliche but "if you've got nothing nice to say, then don't say anything at all" I think it is very truthful. If I saw any of those people I mentioned post a photo etc and I wasn't that bothered about it I'd just ignore it or not comment on it, I wouldn't go and comment on it saying something hurtful just for the sake of it.<br />And I know this bit is cheesy, but if you get hassle over something like "you have big ears" or "you have a big nose" etc, I believe that there is someone out there in this world for you who will think that feature is one of the things they love about you. We all have to accept that we have flaws and things we don't like about ourselves, but we should learn to accept them as they are a part of you and learn to love yourself flaws and all! The most important thing is how you feel about yourself and if you are happy in yourself it will show so don't ever let anyone take that away from you!<br />People will be jealous of your sparkle, so don't let anyone dull your sparkle!<br /><br />p.s. love your quote and this post!<br /><br />www.violetdaffodils.blogspot.co.uk<br />xx<br />VioletDaffodilshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12722545053896667144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-53306215212954151952014-05-01T22:55:10.082-04:002014-05-01T22:55:10.082-04:00Yesh defo. There really needs to be more awareness...Yesh defo. There really needs to be more awareness about it :(Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-84516879682387355282014-05-01T22:54:40.124-04:002014-05-01T22:54:40.124-04:00Thanks so much Ambi, hope you're doing well lo...Thanks so much Ambi, hope you're doing well love! :)Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-23511155800585676942014-04-26T04:14:58.818-04:002014-04-26T04:14:58.818-04:00This is a serious topic and I think it's impor...This is a serious topic and I think it's important to talk about it.<br />Many people get bullied during their school time and there's nobody who can help.<br />The teachers often close their eyes as well :-/<br /><br />Yours<br />www.ella-liebt.deAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09866273528407646303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-73009494554019780252014-04-26T01:26:20.048-04:002014-04-26T01:26:20.048-04:00amazing post Benish !! have a wonderful weekend de...amazing post Benish !! have a wonderful weekend dear :) xx<br />www.ambifashion.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-75724708147699641992014-04-26T00:08:54.552-04:002014-04-26T00:08:54.552-04:00Thank you sweetheart.Thank you sweetheart.Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-33795597023902643582014-04-26T00:08:30.853-04:002014-04-26T00:08:30.853-04:00Thank you! :) I followed you dear.Thank you! :) I followed you dear.Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-38654775298502821992014-04-26T00:08:16.238-04:002014-04-26T00:08:16.238-04:00Aw thank you so much, keep in touch love :) xoAw thank you so much, keep in touch love :) xoBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-55491774158242566832014-04-26T00:06:50.368-04:002014-04-26T00:06:50.368-04:00XoxoXoxoBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-13939054379543016782014-04-26T00:06:32.692-04:002014-04-26T00:06:32.692-04:00Aw thanks x followed you :)Aw thanks x followed you :)Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-22341557954531704722014-04-26T00:05:57.790-04:002014-04-26T00:05:57.790-04:00Followed you sweetheart :) xFollowed you sweetheart :) xBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-68323605034534585842014-04-26T00:05:30.311-04:002014-04-26T00:05:30.311-04:00Agreed, people should take a stand when others are...Agreed, people should take a stand when others are being bullied! Followed you lovely,keep in touch! xoxoBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-78116202218992759912014-04-25T20:16:16.634-04:002014-04-25T20:16:16.634-04:00I enjoyed this post too, of course there is a diff...I enjoyed this post too, of course there is a difference between saying your opinion and being mean.<br />Thank you for you visit sweety!<br />I'm following you now :)<br /><a href="http://www.mybiscoto.com/" rel="nofollow">myBiScoto</a>Lyriel Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15359020474031961732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-37915823360026763222014-04-25T19:05:33.865-04:002014-04-25T19:05:33.865-04:00followed you back!followed you back!Ellie Balanguehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11556043451702032794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-71494414700938075172014-04-25T16:24:52.615-04:002014-04-25T16:24:52.615-04:00beautiful post !
very inspiring
Melissa | The Ink...beautiful post !<br />very inspiring <br />Melissa | <a href="http://www.theinkedblonde.com" rel="nofollow">The Inked Blonde</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-41204321807155103752014-04-25T11:33:45.343-04:002014-04-25T11:33:45.343-04:00This post is very inspirational! Son many people g...This post is very inspirational! Son many people go through bullying at schools without it being noticed by others :(<br />I actually went through it myself so I know how hard it is!<br />I'm not following you via GFC :)<br />I hope you will return the favour!<br />Maya xx<br /><br />voguebymaya.blogspot.co.ukMaya Alexandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00990413712672673890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-10689299152812389432014-04-25T09:56:29.475-04:002014-04-25T09:56:29.475-04:00very good post!very good post!Sandicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10930411813260671981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-56532254365259459852014-04-25T00:54:31.984-04:002014-04-25T00:54:31.984-04:00Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate...Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it! & Of course, following you now, you're such a sweetheart. Keep in touch lovely xo Bless!Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-72620079990118551402014-04-25T00:52:38.766-04:002014-04-25T00:52:38.766-04:00Thank you doll & already following you :) hehe...Thank you doll & already following you :) hehe xoBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-5529456227989663742014-04-25T00:52:15.360-04:002014-04-25T00:52:15.360-04:00Thank you so much & of course, following you o...Thank you so much & of course, following you on gfc :) xoBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-60804032543845150782014-04-25T00:49:53.736-04:002014-04-25T00:49:53.736-04:00Thank you sweetheart :) Already following you xThank you sweetheart :) Already following you xBeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3433746510084776903.post-80339541481098937332014-04-25T00:49:02.340-04:002014-04-25T00:49:02.340-04:00Thank you! Thank you! Beenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718861012681693010noreply@blogger.com